Tuesday, February 26, 2008

情人知己,难分难解?

你相信,世上男女之间真的有纯友谊吗?我觉得这是我们私低下常常讨论的问题,看似普通,却引人深思。直到现在我也不能很肯定的告诉你,有或没有。可能你会说,朋友就朋友,情人就情人,两者有很明显的差异,不可能会分辨不清啊。对,一般的情况来说,普通朋友是不可能被当成情人。如果,对象是个自小相识,一起玩乐一起成长的好朋友,情况是否会有不同的答案?
换个方式来说吧。这个异性朋友与你是青梅竹马,从小到大吃喝玩乐他都会陪在你身边。当你开始懂事时,你发觉自己渐渐的被这位朋友吸引住了。可能,你被他的外表迷住了;可能,你欣赏他待人处世的方法;又可能;他对你无微不至的关怀,让你不自觉的对他产生好感。尤其是当你面临挫折,最无助的时候,他以朋友身份陪在你身旁,呵护你,鼓励你,给你力量走出低潮期。因为这小小的感动,在你心里留下了一波波的涟漪,你对他的感情也起了微妙的变化。内心深处的那股暗涌,使你不期然的喜欢上他了。
我认为,这样的事情确实有机会发生在现实生活中,相信各位也赞同我吧。问题是,谁又有那份勇气去跨越友谊的界限呢?爱,是一种承担。如果选择表白的话,不论结果是好是坏,你都得欣然接受。接下来要面对的,就是你和那位异性朋友之间的友谊,无可避免的受到考验。若有情人终成眷属,当然是最好不过了。如果这表白所带来的是个无言的结局,那再见还是朋友吗?身边有许多例子告诉我,要做到这点真的不容易。所以,各位亲爱的朋友,如有遇到这样的状况,还请三思而后行。毕竟,爱,真的需要勇气。

17 comments:

li said...

shien, i know u wana post this long time ago. jus confess, i support u...leng or ly?
wahahhaaaa....
Btw, wat did u discovered? (good q rite?)hahaa...

Alferd said...

haha li, actually this post is not onli for me, but also for the rest of our gang..remember last time u did ask me the same question? but i didnt answer u by that time..
anyway, the answer is not important today..and u dun think too much, this post does not specific to anyone, alright?

Kent said...

haha... luckily i dun hv such close fren...it's very hard to be close fren with the one u love especially when she is having a relationship wit other... only drama will hv "默默地守在一个你爱她但她不爱你的知己身边”

ling ying said...

hahahahahaha....tis post really...nice!!!
hey...li, his options stil got u n kai xin la...wahaha...shien, i know u got smth wrong alr...jus confess if u wan to confess smth here...lol
kent, i think in the reality "默默地守在一个你爱她但她不爱你的知己身边”is true, u dunno, drama is like life, life is like drama? nothing is impossible

li said...

super funny....hahhaaa..kent alwis bring us surprise, especialy things relating to relationship.hahahaa
ya, jus like the song背影.
感谢我不可以
住进你的眼睛
所以才能拥抱你的背影

Kristen said...

so shall we change the hot topic of friendship to 'partnership' ?

confess la shien!! haha or tell me who is tht and i'll help u spread the news. hahaha

Kristen said...

just kidding la.. i'm very good at keeping secrets!! mouth shut after that or memory lost also can. haha

Kent said...

哈哈,人生如戏,戏如人生。although nothing is impossible, but i prefer normal life and relationship instead of those dramatic situation...人生犹如过山车,有高有低。but i dunwan to stand too high or fall too low...平凡是福。

k e l l y said...

you blog?? wahaha... at first i thought who the hell is alferd, after knew that it was you, laugh my head off man! how come you become such 诗情画意? don't suit you 邋遢 style lah. XD

i think of course got pure friendship betweena girls and guys. it's a matter how you look at it. but if reach to a level where '友达以上,恋人未满',then it's very hard to crossover the border. it takes 2 palms to clap hands. you know what i mean la, right?

Alferd said...

so well, thanks for u guys support! actually i wanted to write a blog like this since long time ago!
kent: ya true, nothing is really impossible, so u better put more attention on frens around you..mayb 'she' is waiting for u.. haa
ling ying & lili: so did i mention about sth that u gals wanna know but dare not to ask? dun be shy, ask whatever u wan to know here..
shyan: hey, i wont keep any secret from u as long as u ask me..btw, i think u r one of the big mouth also, especially when u hang around with ly, quin them..everything is transparent in GALS' TALK!!
kelly: i m such a person sincelong time ago, u really dunno me so well la..but it is not too late for u to know me from now =D
eh, i tell u again!! alferd is a very nice name okay!! dun always laugh at me!! yeah..friend = friend, partnr = partner ! ! !

li said...

shien, so wat do u think i should ask?

ling ying said...

hahaha...stil need to ask meh? smth very obvious la, 画公仔不必画出肠 d la...kakaka

kelly, u really no give him face, i know cz his face too big but u also dun too over nia...wahaha...when i saw u wrote him 邋遢 style i really laugh like hell..hahahaha! good job, kelly

Likchun said...

huh? wat 画公仔不必画出肠? miss july do occur? lol

Alferd said...

EXCUSE ME!! this is for everyone of us, not specific for anyone k.
i also hope that 'miss july' does exist in my life, but too bad, i dun have the chance to meet 'her' yet..
so dun think too much la..i immediately let u guys know IF i got a target..remember..IF =D

li said...

shien, hope it's not ur true story, if not i ll feel that i'm such a fiasco. being a close friend of u, but i notice nothing.

ling ying said...

li, he got target liao d...neh..yesterday la, he went to sing k with his "KBU female freind" also dun wanna come back to mtkb la..u should beat him if he told u nothing...cheap big head shien, sorry i need to mention tis here cz who ask u ffk us?huh!!!dun give me the excuse tat u r having class anymore...kakakaka

li said...

oh good,'got wings nw, can fly ald', no longer need us anymore. ok fine, since u ald found ur target, bring her to meet up wif ly them, need to do sum evaluation. see how ur so called 'target' compare to our lemon. Our gang will evaluate fairly, no worry.