Sunday, September 21, 2008

当友情"网络化"

我不会忘记那个雨天。我本来应该和四个朋友到KTV狂欢。这群人是我中学时期的密友,由于现在工作忙碌,我们的聚会一再延后,因此我对这个迟来的约会感到特别兴奋。当天早上,这次聚会的举办人A,透过MSN告诉我B生病了不能赴约。一小时后又MSN我说C临时有工作不能出席。怎知,下午时分,A传来一则简讯说D嫌太多人缺席,要求约会改期。A说可以陪我,不过会迟到。结果我苦等了一小时。当我以为所有人都爽约时,A出现了,但一句抱歉也没有。我压下心中不满和她共进下午茶。回家的路上,顿时感到很惆怅。好不容易等到的周末,就在朋友集体爽约和莫名其妙的等候中耗掉了。其实,我必须承认,友谊早已随时间而变质了。我们的情况并不特殊。

当我们离开校园,成为上班一族,陷入追赶跑的生活步伐中,友情像滑落排行榜外的歌曲,不再熟悉。此外,科技也改变了友情的面貌。常看到有人在FACEBOOK上有几百个朋友,可是当中究竟有几个是经常和他有互动,答案是:不超过10%.

没错,科技使人更容易保持联系,不过我想也就是因为社交网站让人产生错觉,以为朋友永远都在弹指之间,所以反而使人不会付出更多努力去维系感情。

Well, this is not my true story, just simply abstract it from an article..To certain extent, what did the author mention is correct. I believe that some of you would agree with him, and so do i. Hmm..do not mean to create any issue here, just want to share it with everyone of you, my friends..

6 comments:

li said...

agree...ll this happen among us?

jack said...

"追赶跑的生活步伐中,友情像滑落排行榜外的歌曲,不再熟悉" but sometimes i realize, if you refresh yourself with some old songs which you think is nice,there are still always nice and always in your mind if you want to.

i think if want to maintain it, everyone has to put some afford in it.

friendship forever!

Likchun said...

哇!好感性啊!

well, i believe it will happen no matter how, the only issue is jus when will it happen :)

JukeBox said...

well, if there isn't networking over the internet, we wouldn't be able to talk to each other at all sometimes. it does help in many cases. like all things the good always comes with bad...

Alferd said...

no matter how we are changed, as long as life goes on, we are friends..F O R E V E R

...cheng... said...

iF we really put in effort for our frenship,, I BELIEVE tis will never happen among us ...
FRIENDSHIP NEVER END......